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7 Signs That You’re Too Busy

June 18, 2019 By Kathie 18 Comments

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For me one of the biggest challenges of being a wife, mother, and teacher in our home school,  is  not allowing myself to get TOO busy. Finding BALANCE, keeping focused on the priorities, and keeping them at the top of my daily list requires constant effort. It’s so easy to miss the signs that you’re too busy with things that don’t matter or are even GOOD things, while letting them replace the most important things.

How do you know when you have allowed too much busyness? There are always tell-tale signs! 

7 Signs That You’re Too Busy

1. Neglecting time with God.

Jeremiah 2:32  Yet my people have forgotten me days without number.

If you don't have time to pray and read Bible, you're too busy.

Spending time with God is the foundation that everything  we do needs to rest upon. When we let this time get crowded out by busyness, we begin trying to do things in our own strength and quickly become overwhelmed.

The busier you are, the more important it is to spend time seeking God and His wisdom.

Seeking Him - Moms in the Word

2. Neglecting your priorities.

When you find that your priorities are often being pushed aside for other activities, it’s time to re-evaluate.

Take a look at The Most Important Goals & Priorities to Have When Parenting Intentionally, then take a few minutes to evaluate how you re doing in those areas.

3. Neglecting your spouse.

The relationship with your spouse is the most important one, after your relationship with God. It’s important to be purposeful in nurturing your marriage.

Here are some  tips to help you keep your marriage strong:  How To Avoid An Expiration Date On Your Marriage.

4. Neglecting your family.

Do you find yourself just rushing through the things that you “have” to do with or for your family ?

Are you too busy online or without outside activities to be available for them?  When you find yourself feeling resentment about serving your family, you are too busy.

I share a time when I wasn’t exactly being an available parent in this post:  7 Tips For Being An Available Parent. 

5. Neglecting care of your house.

I will be the first to say that this isn’t my top priority, and certainly wasn’t when I had lots of little ones running around.

However,  it is important to at least make time for regular maintenance cleaning, and keeping things picked up.  (Enlist the help of your kids!)

6. Neglecting time for rest.

It is never okay to go for long periods of time with too little sleep, if you can avoid it.

Sometimes we have an extra full schedule that may cause us to have a bit less sleep for a few days, or maybe sick kids that are keeping us up at night. But sleep is essential!

You need it for your health, as well as your spirit.  You may get away with skimping on it for awhile, but it WILL catch up with you.

Learn to choose what really needs to be done, and what can be left undone in  order for you to get the rest you need!

leave things undone

7. Neglecting self-care, and self-renewal.

Making time for self-care and self-renewal   is just as important getting enough sleep.  You can’t give and serve without taking time to refill your well. You will run dry.

What should you do when you realize you are too buy and are neglecting some of these areas?

Ask God to :

  • Give you wisdom to know what matters
  • Show you what can be left undone
  • Give you self-discipline to keep your God given priorities in place

Be aware of these signs that you’re too busy, and regularly check to make sure you are being faithful in the areas that matter, and not letting busyness distract you from your priorities.

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  4. Rachel @ Smart Mom Smart Ideas says

    May 21, 2016 at 8:17 pm

    Kathie, sometimes it’s the little things that trip us up. Taking time for God, our family, and our spouse and so important. When we miss these times, it seems little like no big deal, but it all adds up over time. I love the quote from Jill Briscoe you included. Thank you for sharing at Mom-to-Mom Mondays.

  5. Kathie says

    April 6, 2016 at 7:38 pm

    Michele, I never thought of misplacing things as a sign of being too busy, but you’re right! When I’m extra busy and stressed, I tend to lose things….of course, after 8 kids my brain function is a bit slow anyway. lol

  6. Kathie says

    April 6, 2016 at 7:35 pm

    Shelby, I remember the days with young ones and how hard it was to find alone time. I share some things that helped me with this in a post called “Who Has Time To Be Spiritual?!” http://thecharactercorner.com/?p=1892 Maybe it will give you some ideas to help you. I always suggest just grabbing a verse to cling to if nothing else, and a quick prayer as you are getting dressed, if nothing else. I also listen to Bible reading on a phone app on days that are crazy.

  7. Kathie says

    April 6, 2016 at 7:30 pm

    Liz, that made me laugh! Cleaning isn’t always my first choice either. 🙂 Hmm, I’ll see what I can do about a printable.

  8. Kathie says

    April 6, 2016 at 7:28 pm

    Karen, as homeschooling moms our time is always at a premium. I think it’s a constant thing to have to keep seeking God’s wisdom for what we should do and what we should let go. And even when we eliminate some things, it’s still a battle to keep our focus and priorities. I’m glad God is patient with me!

  9. Kathie says

    April 6, 2016 at 7:26 pm

    Betty, I love that quote! So true, but yet it’s so easy to get too busy and often the first thing we let go, is our quiet time with the Lord.

  10. Betty says

    April 6, 2016 at 11:13 am

    I agree. I especially like the one about neglecting time with God. Someone once said, “If you are too busy to make time for God, then you are just too busy.”

  11. Karen says

    April 6, 2016 at 10:17 am

    Neglecting time for rest… and time alone with God… yep. too busy. It’s hard to know what to cut out though with homeschooling, full time job, and ministry responsibilities. seems like the demands just keep piling up. It’s often easy to get to the end of the day and wonder how life got so busy. thanks for the reminders though. I’ll think about what you said here!

  12. Ana (@ANAWINSblog) says

    April 6, 2016 at 8:22 am

    It is so easy to become overloaded with too many things and lose focus of our true priorities. My house and then family usually take the first hits when I’m too busy. It’s always good to get a reminder to shift my focus, thanks!

  13. Liz says

    April 6, 2016 at 8:09 am

    What if I do #5 on purpose…. I just don’t love cleaning, so it’s the first thing to go when I have more desirable things to do! Great points here in this post. It would make a great bathroom mirror printable… Just sayin’! Blessings!

  14. Shelly says

    April 6, 2016 at 7:55 am

    Oh, #1 is a big one for me. I’m at the point in my life when I am so busy with my kids that it seems literally impossible to even get a few minutes to completely devote myself to reading his Word. This is something I’ve been praying about, but, so far, my time with God has been very sparse. I know that people tell me that this is just a season in my life, but I feel that my relationship with Him has reached a plateau.

  15. Michele Morin says

    April 6, 2016 at 7:16 am

    Yes to every one of these points.
    I’ve come to realize that my first sign of being too busy is that I start to misplace things. That’s my indicator that something has to slow down so my brain can catch up!

  16. Kathie says

    April 5, 2016 at 1:52 pm

    Pam, thanks for stopping in! You’re right — it’s so easy to lose our focus, if we aren’t purposeful.

  17. Tracey says

    April 5, 2016 at 6:57 am

    This is a great reminder to keep our priorities in their rightful place!

  18. Pam says

    April 4, 2016 at 6:14 pm

    Kathie, these are absolutely on point tips. This is something that creeps up in all of our lives no matter what season unless we are intentional about keeping it in check. Happy tone visiting as your neighbor at the Linkup at The Modest Mom today.

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