During my past 31 years of homeschooling our eight kids, I have often had parents ask me, “How do you do it with so many kids? How were you able to stick with it for 31 years?!” Do you have a secret to easy homeschooling?
There was a time when homeschooling overwhelmed me, and I was exhausted and burned out. I was struggling to keep up with the needs of all the kids, as I tried to teach them. However, when I learned this little secret to easy homeschooling, all of that changed!
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I still had times when it was difficult and I was tired, but I was no longer constantly overwhelmed.
The secret I learned: teach your kids to be independent learners! It really is possible, and it really does work.
Due to necessity with difficult pregnancies, my older kids started doing their school work on their own. By the time they were in about fourth grade, they were working on their own. I still checked in on them, and helped them occasionally as needed.
Because we had worked hard to develop good character in them, they were trustworthy and responsible, and did very well on their own.
They even ENJOYED it.
They liked being in charge of their learning, and it gave them a sense of confidence that they could learn on their own, with the right tools.
Often we think that our home school must mirror a public or private school, with Mom standing up teaching the kids all their subjects, then giving them assignments to do. This requires Mom to make lesson plans for several kids, and many subjects.
As a result, Mom ends up stressed and overwhelmed because she spends most of the day teaching, and then tries to do lesson planning, grading, AND all of her household duties in the evening.
Don’t make it harder on yourself than you have to!
There are so many advantages to teaching your kids to be independent learners:
- More time for Mom to devote to the younger kids that still need her help
- Less planning and preparation time for Mom
- Children remember more when they are learning it on their own, rather than being spoon-fed
- Children learn to think for themselves, and can pursue their interests
Perhaps you are wondering how this works?
Of course when your kids are young, and just starting school, you will have to be involved. They can’t learn phonics and reading on their own. They will also need you to help them with basic math skills.
Until they are able to read fairly well on their own, you will be teaching them and working with them.
Once they have grown in character and developed self-discipline, you can start gradually having them do more of their work on their own.
You will also need some type of chart for the kids to know what they are supposed to do daily, weekly, and for the school year.
I made charts for the kids with the subjects listed, gave them their books, and let them make goals for how they were going to finish their work during the school year.
You can see the charts and lots of tips in my set Tips & Charts for Stress Free Planning & Scheduling.
They loved being responsible for their learning, and being the one to set up their schedule for daily work.
Don’t just give them the books and chart. For this to work, you have to let the kids know what your expectations are.
Our kids knew they had to do a certain amount of school work each week. If they chose to do extra for four days so they could have the fifth day off, that was okay.
We still chose to do some subjects together because we all enjoyed that, but having the older kids do the rest of their work independently left me with enough time to work with the younger learners, as well as spend time with the babies/preschoolers.
This little secret won’t necessarily make your homeschooling EASY, but it will definitely make it much EASIER!
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